Talking to your HCP: 10 Questions to Ask

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10 Questions to Ask

The questions you may want to ask your healthcare provider can cover a wide range of topics. from changes in sex drive, dealing with sex during pregnancy, pain during sex, protecting your fertility, what form of contraception would be best, or other issues. There are few topics, however, that any sexually active person should be sure to discuss, including preventing sexually transmitted infections, getting tested, and more.

The 10 questions below are a great place to start the conversation with your healthcare provider.


  1. I want to make sure that I'm taking all of the right steps to protect myself from sexually transmitted infections. Where should I start?
  2. How can I talk to my partner about STIs? Can you give me some advice?
  3. I want to make sure that my partner and I get tested before we have sex. Where should I go? How can I bring up the topic with him/her?
  4. Given what we’ve talked about in terms of my relationship history, should I be tested for STDs/STIs? Which ones?
  5. How often should I be tested for STIs? Which ones?
  6. Are there any vaccines I should consider to protect myself from STIs? Are there vaccines that are recommended for me?
  7. What are my options when it comes to birth control? How can I talk to my partner about birth control options?
  8. I’ve been feeling differently about sex recently. Can we talk about what might be going on?
  9. What screenings* are recommended for someone my age? (*such as STI tests, mammograms, prostate cancer screening, etc.)
  10. I’m not always happy with the way my partner treats me. Can we chat about that?

Your provider needs to know some personal information about you so that she or he can help answer your questions and assess your risk and offer the correct advice. You may want to talk to your provider about the following:


  • Your sexual history
  • Your current sexual practices
  • Your condom use
  • Any symptoms you have
  • If you could be pregnant

Finding the Right Provider

What if you don't have a regular healthcare provider? Where do you begin trying to find one? You can start by asking family, friends, or co-workers for referrals. If you have health insurance, your insurance company should offer a list of providers as well. The links below offer another resource, allowing you to search for appropriate providers and health centers in your area:

Find a Health Center (from the U.S. Health Resources Services Administration)
Search federally-funded health centers that provide care even if you have no health insurance. You pay what you can afford, based on your income.

MedlinePlus Directories
MedlinePlus (a service of the National Library of Medicine and the National Institutes of Health) provides links to directories to help you find health professionals, services and facilities.

Planned Parenthood
Find a Planned Parenthood clinic near you.