
Talking to a Partner about Condoms
Don’t be shy to talk with your partner about safer sex and condoms: For both of you, this is one of the most important conversations you can have. It’s also one of the smartest!

How are STIs transmitted? When should someone be tested? A national survey from the Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center finds many in the U.S. struggle when answering those questions.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention released their annual surveillance report on STIs earlier this year and the numbers are sobering: 1.6 million cases of chlamydia and nearly 650,000 cases of gonorrhea. The report also documented more than 207,000 cases of syphilis, an 80% increase since 2018; in the same interval rates of congenital syphilis (when the infection is passed to a fetus during pregnancy) jumped a staggering 183%.
There’s no simple answer to explain these numbers, but lack of awareness about how STIs are transmitted (and prevented) surely contributes. The Ohio State researchers surveyed 1,005 adults in the U.S. and found:
To explore these topics, ASHA spoke with Abigail Norris Turner, PhD, an infectious diseases epidemiologist and professor with the Ohio State University College of Public Health. Dr. Turner says the sharp uptick in syphilis infections is driven by many factors, including people’s perception of their risk: “Some people are surprised to learn that syphilis continues to circulate today – they associate it with a bygone era.”
She says current guidelines call for syphilis testing of all pregnant people at the first prenatal visit, but it wasn’t always that way: “For decades, screening guidelines varied by state. Providers used their clinical judgement to determine who needed a syphilis test during pregnancy. That led to missed opportunities for testing and thus also missed opportunities to avert congenital syphilis cases.”
Dr. Turner says stigma plays a role, too. “Most people don’t want to talk about their STI risk, and many are not open to messages encouraging them to get tested for STIs, even when they are symptomatic. If they do get a test and it comes back positive, it can be very hard to tell recent partners. Some people choose not to let their past partners know of their potential infection because of the stigma of having, and possibly transmitting, an STI. Stigma contributes to ongoing cycles of transmission and are part of the increased STI rates we see today.”
Shrinking budgets make it even more challenging to combat the current surge in STIs. “Reduced funding makes it harder for public health programs to get their messages of testing and treatment out to the community. Those messages were especially hard to deliver during COVID. Post-pandemic, people have largely returned to their pre-pandemic sexual lives, but the underlying prevalence of many STIs is higher now than in 2020. It’s critical that public health programs have the resources they need to continue testing and treating these infections.”

Don’t be shy to talk with your partner about safer sex and condoms: For both of you, this is one of the most important conversations you can have. It’s also one of the smartest!

New studies add to our evidence that doxy PEP works to prevent bacterial STIs among transgender women and men who have sex with men.

Read through FAQa on doxy PEP is the strategy of taking the antibiotic doxycycline after condomless oral or anal sex to prevent chlamydia, gonorrhea, or syphilis.

Doxy PEP involves taking an oral antibiotic after condomless sex to prevent bacterial STIs. Research has shown that this can reduce the possibility of contracting chlamydia by 88%, syphilis by 87%, and gonorrhea by 55%.

The FDA recently approved an at-home test for syphilis that can provide initial results in just 15-minutes. Syphilis has been surging in recent years with the number of cases rising 80% between 2018 and 2022 alone.

Two studies published in this month’s JAMA Internal Medicine offer encouraging findings about the use of Doxy PEP.

PrEP stands for pre-exposure prophylaxis. The word prophylaxis means to prevent or control the spread of an infection or disease. The goal of PrEP is to prevent HIV infection from taking hold if you are exposed to the virus.

Many STIs have no signs or symptoms. The only way to know if you have an STI is to get tested. Learn more about all your STI testing options.
ASHA believes that all people have the right to the information and services that will help them to have optimum sexual health. We envision a time when stigma is no longer associated with sexual health and our nation is united in its belief that sexuality is a normal, healthy, and positive aspect of human life.
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